A single truth about SUCCESS

What is your goal in life? And what are you doing to achieve it? What are your goals, dreams, plans?

What is success for you?

The most common thing is to listen to phrases like "I want a better car," "I need a promotion at work", "I need more money," and so on, in wheels of conversations between friends. But what is a better car for you? What you have to do to get exactly this kind of car? You have given your best and be prepared to be promoted? How much money do you want? What will you do with that money?

Eighty percent of the population is subject to just say and think about what you want, but do not think of ways to go and in their planning for what you want. Think of how it would be is a great experience, but what if you can accomplish everything you crave? It would be even more satisfying?

On the day we get tired of bumping into self help books, secrets and successful people tips, step by step miraculous, and "n" number of ways to help us. But you know what the "x" to the question of them all? After you read a self help book, for example, you are motivated and delighted with everything, for a maximum of one month. The problem is not in the book, in the field, in the lecture. The problem is you!

The problem is that you only know complain, never thanks for what you have and when crave something different, is unwilling to fight and prefer to be daydreaming. Use trying to be promoted and you do not have necessary professional qualifications and is not a great employee? Note that the percentage of extraordinary people is minimal. And they always failed before reaching the top. They failed because they tried numerous times, not because they did not pay for what they were doing.

What is success for you? Money? Fame? Power? Family? Cheers?

If you do not put in your head what you want and focus on the road ahead to get what you crave, you forget, will not, will feel motivated just one week and then will look side and say "after I finish" "after I get", "me no good," "I am not able." And how? How to change the way of thinking and acting? How to be a more confident person, more positive, quieter and even more helpful?

You can start with a simple act of putting, for example, post it, what you need to do, think, remember, perform, dream, finally, what can not forget and you need to fix in your mind. Let around the house in places where you will come face to face and not go unnoticed. Then, to have a goal of more elaborate and focused life, you can take a notebook or calendar, and for each sheet, write a focus. Professional, emotional, health, family. In each of these topics, you write everything you crave. Once you do, to question "how should I do?", "Where to start?", "What should I do?", "That's what I want?", "When I get, what should I do ? "; these are bases issues to have a plan of conquest, but you can formulate your own questions. From the moment you put on paper, read every day, formulates and reformulates, ideas will become fixed in his mind, finally, you will even changing their habits.

As for the failure, no one ever taught us how to handle it, but failure is not a bad thing if you're a positive person. Went wrong? Was it because you tried and the simple fact of trying already puts you in a very small percentage of people who do not fit in most. But always remember that no good again, have to see where he went wrong not to do it again. So you know those tender leaves that you will separate your goals? Leave one for FAILURE. Write all your failures, from a relationship that did not work, a business that tried to open and not turned, a job vacancy that wanted much and failed. Then follow the same line of questioning, "because I failed?", "What could I have done better?" "I need to remember not to do ?? again."

We do not know what is the true reality after death, then, and if there is no other life, is that you are fully living or are you surviving? Think about it!